Am I caught in the same pattern again?


Often times we can find ourselves caught up in the same kind of situations in life.
Wether it be the same kind of unhealthy relationship, the same working environment where we feel disrespected or the “one more time” miracle diet that we pray will make us skinny once and for all.
Have we been here before in similar circumstances?
Why are we always attracting these situations?
And yet why not?
Are we doing anything different, have we looked at ourselves and made inside changes?
If not why are we expecting life to do it for us?
Life is giving us what we need to learn about ourselves.
If we are always attracting abusive relationships, what does that say about our self-esteem and self-respect? The day we decide we are deserving of much better and we truly believe it, is the day we will start looking for a partner that will respect us.
The day we will stand up for ourselves in front of an abusive boss because we know everyone is equal and deserve to be treated fairly, including us, is the day we will receive better treatment or we will quit our job for a better one.
The day we accept ourselves as an imperfect human being, the same as everyone else, knowing that we always do the best with what we have, is the day we will stop all the crazy yo-yo diets and start respecting ourselves and our bodies on a daily basis with a healthier lifestyle.
There are no miracle cures for life, there are no miracle tricks that will save us, but we own the power to change ourselves within us.
We are on own saviour.
We owe it to ourselves to take responsibility for our own lives and make the necessary changes that will support our spirit to thrive in this life.
We can all do it, there are no limitations, only the ones we put on ourselves.
And just like that, in an instant, in a moment we can break through these limitations and become free, just by choosing to be.

We are free, we are Spirit.


3 Comments Add yours

  1. Hi Karen. Thanks for sharing this truth. We are our own saviors. My blog post this morning proposes a question that I would love you to answer if you have a moment. What if you could redesign your life?


  2. Val Boyko says:

    I love your question … and the wisdom of your post Karen!
    The answer is usually Yes, that’s for sure 😊

    Liked by 1 person

    1. karenwilson says:

      Thank you 🙂


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